In addition to lifestyle changes, technology is changing the way people enjoy sex. Through the internet people can meet the biological needs. This is the reality of modern human life. How about you?

For urban men and professional workers, Bambang always follow technological developments and social change, including sex. Bambang for sex change is not a strange phenomenon. Change of sex is a natural, sex shift from traditional to modern is a cycle that must occur. This view led to human Bambang dynamic and open in many ways, including access to internet.

Recognized by the marketing manager of a retail company, apart from sexual intercourse with a partner, Bambang often fantasize of sex through the internet. “As a normal man, sepeiti activity is a natural thing. It’s the nature of man like the female. Through cybersex we can enjoy the beauty of a woman’s body from a distance, did not have to go to cafes or to the hotel, just enough of the office, “tutor was born in Malang.

Recognized by Bambang, leisure bercyber often used for sex. Since having his own work space, Bambang free access porn sites and sites sex stories where he used to read porn stories and avoid scrutiny bosses and subordinates. Unlike the Yopi, assistant financial manager cargo companies. Each browsing nude pictures, single birth Bandung always go to the cafe, it was after work.

Yopi know cybersex about a year ago from a coworker. “At first just for fun, eventually become addicted. Nice to get rid of stress. Compared to other colleagues friends, I am including a rare access to cybersex, at most three times a week, “laughed Yopi tutor.
Cyber Sex

Cybersex is the erotic relationship that occurs in nature cyberspace. Internet relay service is one sate which means chat room users often use the Internet. Along with the development of technology, facilities to fly into virtual nature evolved, too. Used to display only a simple chat room, is now available a variety of background choices, from music, web cam until
Internet phone service. Making Internet customers feel more comfortable and at home.

There was no denying that the existence of cybersex is not free from sex internet business. The manager of porn sites to provide “special room” for sexual intercourse distance. By means of web cam cyber sex lovers interact with each other and enjoy the beauty of the body of his interlocutor.

Some people looked at each other, cybersex is stupid activities, which does not cause emotional reactions. But in some people considered that the sexual and emotional reactions can be obtained from the cyber sex, because of cybersex is a real. The reaction is not much different felt when actual sexual herhubungan. Not only that, the existence of sex cyher can satisfy sexual fantasies without having real sex. For those who do not know the sex, cybersex can be a means of learning, as well as for men who want to marry, can be a means of simulations.

For couples who are separated, in which there is no time to meet and herhubungan sex, cybersex can be a tool to keep intercourse. With the help of a web cam and phone irzternet they can see and communicate with each other.
Cybersex addiction

The Internet has revolutionized the way people communicate, through distance, time and space. The real world has been replaced by the virtual world. Kebeadaan cybersex has changed the human sex style, far beyond the sexual nature. Before the Internet people know the extent of sex real sex, physical touching. Having no internet, people can have sex without touching.

Simply put there are two types of cyber sex, first made an official couple, both with a prostitute. With the Internet technology, businesses no longer need sex to sell real woman enough visually. Fortunately that was not obtained much different.

According to A. Kasandra Putranto, there are two factors that cause a woman to be a virtual natural entertainer. First financial factors. Lack of money makes people easy to forget the social and religious values. Things like this can happen to anyone, including men. Both factors exhibitionist. Exhibitionist woman is a woman who likes to show things that are not fair on others. In fact, these women would not be paid, for them to show it is not fair to others is a pleasure.

Unwitting exhibitionist pleasures behind the bad value is stored degree of self-dropped in public. By law, an exhibitionist women may not get sanctioned, but the culture of social sanctions is getting a bad stigma, even hisa isolated from the environment.

Referring to the psychology, the man who likes cyber sex is the kind of guy who likes adventurous sex. “This feature of such a man not easily satisfied, always imagining and not satisfied at one point. Besides love to see moving pictures, cyber sex lovers men also like to look at pornographic pictures, “said an observer of this psychology.

According to Kasandra, the negative effects of men are addicted to cyber sex. Internet users will have cyber sex addiction through several stages. First addiction, users initially limited to cyber sex attracted to pornographic materials. Over time, want to get more other pornographic material. Second escalation, over time, to satisfy the needs of cyber sex sex addicts will find the material more hot sex.

As a result of addiction is not productive life becomes. Cyber sex addicts may feel powerless to leave konsumtifnya behavior. This makes their lives become irregular. At a later stage fatal, cybersex addicts prefer to masturbate with a computer than with actual intercourse. In certain conditions to realize a virtual sex to the real world.

Besides addiction, cyber sex can also be a negative impact on household survival. Some have wives who do not like the husband who likes to cyber sex, because it is considered harassment and adultery. Although no physical contact, but the interaction that causes a sense of turmoil. When sexual intercourse with his wife, who was in the mind rather than his wife, but another woman.

But in some women considered that cybersex is a natural thing and should not be questioned. Everyone can access the cyber-sex. This mindset usually occurs in the liberal women, and the Internet has become part of life that can not be separated. Positive or negative effects caused by the Internet is considered a natural.
General phenomenon Cyber Sex

No one has the right to prohibit a person to bercyber sex. And vice versa, no one has the right to force someone to do cyber sex. During done in consciousness, without coercion hebas people do. Until now there has been no legislation governing the use of cyber sex. Including psychology, also could not determine whether cyber sex should be done or not. All depends on the local community norms.

A lot to consider if you want to assess the feasibility of cybersex. “First of social norms, both the number of population who have a computer, third computer ownership can be on line. The fourth number of people who access the internet for free (including access (cyber sex). If the number of owners The access of computers and cyber sex than people without computers, including accessing cybersex cyber sex means being already accepted by society, “said the manager was Psychological Practice .

Referring to the world’s population, the level of human consciousness to the already high technology, including cybersex. So, whether natural or social phenomena depend on social conditions and population. “The psychology of men who like to access the cybersex is not an aberration or experiencing a mental disorder. Cybersex is a natural thing. Note psychological assessment is not based on one country but the world, “said Kasandra.

Cybersex phenomenon is similar to the phenomenon of homosexuality. In the 1970s, homosexuality is considered a sexual deviation clan conflict with the norms. Now regarded as the privatization of homosexual sex, and naturally performed. In fact, most countries recognize the existence of a fellow lover of this type.

Learning in the case above, for current conditions in Indonesia may be a cybersex unnatural. But one day, when the development of computers and the internet The access is equitable to all cyber sex Indonesia may be able to be a natural. The wife will not be afraid anymore of her husband’s cybersex crazy. So is the view of men, cyber sex is one of fairness and biological needs that must be met. The reason is biological needs can be met through a variety of ways.

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